We speak of darkness
as we speak of light
we speak of darkness
as if it arises
and radiates
like light,
forgetting
as cold is the mere
absence of warmth
dark is the mere
absence of light
and in creating
walls of prejudice
roofs of fear
windows of hate
doors of ignorance
we breed the idea
that darkness
has a protective glow
of its own
not realizing
it is merely feeding off
the maggots of our own
ego
Good god. Can you imagine making a film and being responsible for the characters almost 20 years after you have made it ?
I cannot count the number of times that people have stopped me on the streets , and now asked me on twitter or on my blog “why did the little girl Tina have to die ?”
So here is the truth finally. After all these years. I got cold feet !
There is always a thin line between farce and fantasy. I was having so much fun shooting the characters of Mr India, with such fine actors, that I thought the film would be turning into a farce. And films like Mr India cannot turn into a farce, they must be like a fantasy that makes you believe in what is happening, or there will be a rejection from the audience, specially from Children. There is a sense of emotional involvement and believability that rides through the film.
I looked at Mr India and realized that somehow I had to bring the film back to the ground. Earth it, in a way, so people stay connected to the film in their hearts, and not just in their minds. If it turned into a farce, the film would just pass by.
So I am afraid I committed the crime of killing Tina. Of course I gave the blame to Mogambo, but I was the guilty one.
And the scene where Tina is in her coffin and all the kids come and kiss her one by one and lay flowers on her body ? Umm … another confession to make. Little Tina could not help laughing all the time. It was so strange to see the beautiful little girl in a tiny coffin in the graveyard we were shooting the film in – just burst into peals of laughter every time someone lay a flower over her.
So we decided to wait till she went to sleep. But of course she would not comply. And with the light getting darker and the producer screaming on my back. I asked her mother what would put her to sleep. What do you give kids to put them to sleep ?
And yes, I confess, her mother and I gave her a tiny spoonful of that. And Tina went peacefully to sleep. And something strange happened.
Each kid coming to put a flower on on her, looking like sleeping beauty, but in tiny coffin broke down. Not acting, but in real. Some of them started to sob. The Sri Devi started to sob, as did other crew members. And I must admit a let e few tears roll by. There was something about how beautiful and serene little Tina was looking in that tiny coffin that just affected us all on that day.
If Tina had woken up and seen us all crying that day, she would have just broken into peels of laughter.
be vulnerable
so vulnerable
that the pain of
a falling leaf
reaches out, and ..
moves you to tears
be aware
be so aware
that the sound of the first flap
of new born butterfly’s wings
fills your heart with joy
let me tell you a story
a story that never ends ..
let me tell you a story
a story that never began
let me tell you a story
that was there when God found himself
and will still be there when God
forgets who he is
let me tell you a story
a story of love
Its a wonder to me that a privately owned financial organization called S & P could alter the way the world looks at economics, and pressurize governments of ( say the Eurozone) to take steps that could destroy their social systems and radically alter the lives, security and future of millions of people. Why would a downgrade by S & P radically alter currency values (especially the Euro). What do they know that others do not ? What do they know that the governments of the nations do not ?
After all in 2008 it was radically clear that no one knew. Almost everyone that understood capitalism in one way got it completely wrong. Capitalism turned tables on all known financial systems and showed that there is a time when the rules suddenly change, where the bubble suddenly burst and the flaws come bursting out.
There was a time when the World Bank policies were pushing developing nations to make decisions that in theory and paper looked great, but which from a huge social cost perspective were a disaster. Especially large infrastructure projects that not only caused huge human displacement, social injustice and trauma, police atrocities, and environmental damage. And in a cost/benefit analysis 10 years down the line, the only benefit turned out to be was to the corporations, politicians and middle men. Not the people.
Thankfully the World Bank does not wield that power (at least in India) or Indian financial systems would have been far more hit by the sub-prime crisis than it was in 2008. Not a deliberate path of ‘overlordship’ by the World Bank I think, but the Western Economic System was the only one that was considered valid then. It was the economic mantra taht failed. Post 2008 has been a lesson – the one which we are in danger loosing sight of again. A lesson that cultures often come into conflict with economic development models understood in , and imposed by other cultures .
Back to Europe, then. I wanted to know who owns S &P. Is it men in pin stripe suits in darkened board room ? Like the proverbial Gnomes of Zurich ? Here’s what I discovered :
http://tinyurl.com/7jyxznw
S &P is owned by a series of banks and financial institutions that stand to profit by hugely by the movement of currencies, bond markets and financial markets if they has prior knowledge of downgrades from the very company they own. And for those that wonder if it such large multi nation manipulations can at all take place should remember the Asian currency crisis of 1978 where “market overreaction and herding caused the plunge of exchange rates, asset prices, and economic activity to be more severe than warranted by the initial weak economic conditions”. The crisis destroyed millions of livelihoods all across Asia, and some economies have still not recovered. From market speculation.
Is S & P completely above board ?
The good thing though is that the latest downgrade of European nation did not cause the market chaos that was expected. Speculators must have lost a lot of money. Thank God. And perhaps S & P has now ‘cried wolf’ too often and no body really cares
Or maybe, like everyone else, they just don’t know.
from Eshla
Why do we still see in color?
When color came to film, it was a thrilling moment. When color came to television, it was a groundbreaking moment. We celebrated the richness of the colors and they’ve only sharpened over the years. Today our images are even more alive, our colors more vibrant.
Yet, while we celebrate color in the digital world, why don’t we do the same in the real world? Why do we still stop there? Why do we build so many differences – race, ethnicity, religion, class? Why?
As one who’s traveled widely, criss-crossed continents several times, and even bumped up and down on the socio-economic ladder, it’s become quite apparent that people are people, no matter what color – pink, purple, green even! It’s become apparent that our frustrations, worries, concerns, fears are so universal. That is why great art, literature, and music sees no divide. Because its message is of human emotion.
That is why health is so critical to all. Disease has no patience for such differences. It is, in that sense, most fair.
Why is it that we live in such rich, complex societies with stories that stem from different corners of the globe and yet we still hesitate to truly embrace one another? Why?
When the rawness of humanity is so universal, why do we dwell on the superficial?
A friend sent me an article this morning that delineated our inability to truly live in our lifetimes because we are too eager to please. We are creatures who oddly think of others before ourselves many times. We are inclined to bend to the wishes of family and dear friends, even if they are against our deepest desires. We gravitate towards what we are told us “right.” But what is “right?” Is it my “right”? Is it your “right”? Who came up with “right”?
And in the mad cacophony of voices in our head, we forget our own. What if we do not see the differences? What if we do not see color, race, ethnicity, religion, or class? Should we because the world does as well? Should we because our families do as well? Should we because it is easier that way – to drive in the lane that you’re currently taking?
The questions seem endless. And yet, the answer repeatedly seems to be the same — no.
In a conversation with another friend this evening, he shared his admiration for those who take the sayings like “follow your heart,” “do what you love” and really do it. He says to me, there are so few in the this world who actually do it. Many of us hear it, admire it, delude ourselves to believe that we’re doing that, but how many of us go naked with our fears and take the challenge? Very few, he whispered. That’s why it’s admirable.
But, it’s also very hard. It’s very hard to explain to others; rather it’s very tiring. And sometimes, the daily strain of that exercise just tears us down emotionally. And so we return to the “right” path.
For so many of us, the lives that we live are the lives that have been crafted for us. They are not our raw desires. They are not our original vision. They are not our first love.
We do so to please others. To fit into the sweeping definitions we are defined by. Even if they sweep our lives by.
But, we live only for a few moments, only a few years on this planet, only a short lapse in the grander scheme. Why not please ourselves? Why not be guided by unfiltered passion? Why not go blind, using only what we feel? Why not be absolutely true to our deepest wishes?
Because it is difficult?
But nothing is difficult. As I’m told repeatedly, life is simple. People complicate it.
To my 11 year old daughter, Kaveri
You left for India last night leaving me in NYC. Really missing your laughter.
Luckily I have friends here, with whom I will spend emotional time . Not defined as just being ‘truthful’ or honest, but going beyond that. Becoming vulnerable. Vulnerability is the essence of a real relationship between people. Vulnerability is the essence of your relationship with yourself, with God, with everything. Become so vulnerable that you become like water. Accepting of everything, And then let go of everything in its flow.
Here’s a story for you.
There was a little girl that fell in love with two pigeons. One was a beautiful white pigeon, and the other shades of blue and green and grey. She named the white one Elizabeth and the other one Paul. Everyday she would rush back from school just as the shadows of the afternoon were getting softer and longer. Elizabeth and Paul would flutter together and sit on the sill of the bedroom the little girl shared with her younger brother. Not facing towards the bedroom but always towards the backyard of the house. There they would sit in a very regal manner. Facing outward gently speaking to each other in what the little girl called ‘gooterrr- goon’.
The little girl was convinced that Elizabeth and Paul came from the kingdom of ’Gooterr – goon’ and had lost their way. She would rummage through the store house of the kitchen and feed them with any seeds she could find. Of course being an Indian household, it was full of lentils, grains and seeds of all varieties. So there was no shortage of food for them. Every evening at 4 o’clock the little girl would start a conversation with the Elizabeth and Paul. She would make the guttural sounds of ‘gooterr- goon’ and they would respond back. She was convinced they were trying to tell her something, and if she would learn their language, she could help them.
No amounts of arguments from her parents that the pigeons just came for the food would convince her otherwise. The fact is that when her little brother would try to go ‘gooterr-goon’ with them , Elizabeth and Paul would just fly away. She would show the family the hundreds of pigeons that would fly back to their homes every evening, and ask why only Elizabeth and Paul would come to see her. Soon the family became used to their little daughter going ‘Gooterr-goon’ every evening. A sort of ritual. And the pigeons became accepted as part of the family. They would fly away to wherever pigeons go, and come back the next day at the same time.
Till one day Elizabeth, the white pigeon, never came back. Paul would be there, looking lost and lonely. But not Elizabeth. The little girl would go out and shout at all the pigeons that would fly by and go ‘Gooterr-goon’ as loud as possible. It was then that the family realized how familiar they had got to Elizabeth and Paul’s visits. As they watched their little girl come back with tears in her eyes because Elizabeth had not come, they would hug her and all pray that Elizabeth was fine and happy wherever she was.
Then one day Elizabeth did come back. She looked sad and weak. And when the little girl went ‘Gooterr – goon’ at her Elizabeth would not respond. To her shock the little girl realized why. Somebody had shot Elizabeth. The lead pellet from the air gun was still embedded in her throat. Anything that Elizabeth pecked at would just come out of her throat. It was miracle she was still alive. It was a horrific sight and the little girl panicked and thought Elizabeth was going to die, and that she had come back to the little girl asking to help. The whole family was distraught. They all realized how much they too had come to love the pigeons.
The little girl’s father was one of Delhi’s more famous doctors. Unable to take Elizabeth’s suffering he took her into his surgery, and cleaned her wounds. He took out the pellet that some unthinking cruel person has shot her with. To that person it was just a game, a sport. But to Paul, Elizabeth was his companion. To the little girl, her best friend. To the family now, a a precious life that needed to saved.
I still remember how my father gently cleaned the wound, and then stitched together Elizabeth’s wounds, saying words of comfort to my sister. But because I was a ‘man’ he would look me in the eyes. The expression telling me that there was little chance for Elizabeth surviving. I remember my mother bringing Elizabeth into our prayers every night.
Elizabeth did survive. I watched in wonder as her wound healed, as the wound of a human being would. The family stood around happily on the day Elizabeth could finally eat without the seeds spilling out of her throat. She never got her ‘Gooter-goon’ quite back, but she was active again and could fly as she did before. I have never worked out how my father, a pediatrician, could operate on a pigeon and heal her, but will always remember Elizabeth for bringing such joy to our family.
So dear kaveri. The grandfather you only remember as a much older man struggling with age, was once the most compassionate doctor I have ever seen. Your aunt, my sister, once a little girl consumed with fantasies, dreams, love and life, now coming to terms with the experiences of life. Remember that compassion is the greatest gift of them all.
| Sent in by Rudra. By Shakti Salgaokar
After much procrastination, we as a family decided to go and get ourselves the Aadhaar UID card. We got hold of the forms, filled them out and armed with the necessary documents, made way to the UID registration centre in the Hindu Colony Municipal School. Upon reaching the centre, we were told that their schedule was choc-a-bloc and they would only be able to accommodate us after 25th December. So we went back on the 26th, we were told that the Post Office forms that we managed to fill up were invalid and they needed us to fill out the form meant for their centre. We managed to get an appointment for 10am on the 29th, which we could not make. We were told to come on 30th. On the 30th we arrived at 10.10am and were faced with a reluctant Mr Gorakhnath R, an employee of Tera Software Ltd, a Sewree based firm. Busy playing a game on his phone, he asked us to wait. The line didn’t budge an inch for almost 45 minutes. During these 45 minutes, I met a disgruntled gentleman who had already invested four days in fruitlessly chasing his UID, “How many times do I bunk work for this?” he found himself asking just as a couple of college students were denied an Aadhaar form without a valid reason. When the line did not move after almost an hour, we expressed surprise. A seasoned UID chaser told us that the person who handles the equipment, disappears for hours on end each day, halting the entire process. We were left with no choice but to confront Mr Goraknath about the wait… Read the rest of this entry » |
from Uric Hubert Rainard to me , yes, but to the community we have created around this blog. I cannot say my blog, because if your do not read, I do not write. That is the true sense of the new way of Media, the end of Iconism as we know it, but the beginning of Iconism as a fulcrum around which the community develops and then the Icon itself dissolves into the community.
As I was struggling with my first challenges with fame, I took a local train in the ordinary class in Mumbai. At rush hour its an experience that defy’s your sense of individuality. Your are just part of sweaty bodies exchanging breath . Your existence just an extension of the other. I started my first poem that to this day has remained unfinished :
Give me the courage
my friend,
to be ordinary ….
Amazingly fame created not a sense of strong identity but a loss of identity. Now of course I have gambled with fame long enough, like a game of dice, up one day and down the next, to know that life’s lessons compel you to be ordinary always, but extraordinary through the path of humility that life enforces upon you. So now the only thing I have to add to the poem is the line :
lost in humility ..
Uric’s letter :
Dear Mr. Shekhar Kapur I am not totally amazed that you are just as accessible as you were three years ago, and just as adroit and wonderful a host, as you are, who is always available in the sense that it is here that you share your world and that we as your guests are welcomed to be ourselves respectively. It is a deep honor and I came by accidently because I looked up my name on the internet search, and a comment I made when i was last here came up. It was when Anthony Minghella passed away… sorry for your loss, then… and I remember being moved by the great array of your blog… it’s total open-ess. I was also present to read and be a part of the wonderful hopeful gifts of support, when Heath Ledger passed away and the strength of spirit, that must have taken. You are just amazing and I say that because _In every way I feel the very expanse of knowledge that surrounds you. I presume you travel so easily, by this heart that is your foresight_ that you are always prepared, because you live in the immediacy of Now. I can feel it as I write. I used to blog a lot, but I have not for awhile, except to blurb on the Facebook, but this year I will be re-creating my attenuation to the great orb of consciousness, because I believe the existence of true wonder is to be found in our natural selection and cultivation of honored friendships. I hope that you and all of your most honored guests have a most wonderful New Year. Ulric(seattle)
Thank you Ulric, from me on behalf of the community that urges me to host this blog.
In Grand Rapid’s, Michigan ??
And so I thought that after a week in New York, New Years Eve in Grand Rapids, Michigan was going to be was going to be the dullest ever.
Was I in for a surprise ! There is something about small town America that is more than just friendly and warm (of course) , it is .. how should I say it .. cosy and comfortable, with a plethora of restaurants and bars clustered together downtown. You could cover them all in an evening walk. Some of them quite outstanding. Dinner at the Tre Cugini was amongst the best Italian food I have had anywhere. Try the Trout. Outstanding. http://www.trecugini.com/
But the treat today was a chance visit to an extraordinairy shop.
Kaveri (my 11 year old daughter) and I were walking through the freezing high street. She kicking up the snow and trying to stuff it down my collar. At a temperature of 20 degree F it’s not a game that was very welcome. And suddenly in front of me was a shop selling Olive Oil. I am an Olive Oil lover, often harassing my Italian friends to get me the first pressings from their friend’s farms. The stronger the taste of Olive Oil the better for me. Not something my Indian friends can understand for whom any oil undisguised by spices is merely a lack of sophisticated taste.
My first encounter with Olive Oil came on a sailing trip with some of my friends in the 70’s. Hugging the south coast of Spain starting in Gibralter, we sailed a huge 80 foot ketch built so early in the century that it should not have been considered sea worthy. And I, in the search for spicy food found the Spanish Paella. Well … it looked like a curry. So I thought why not ? Put a handful in my mouth and almost threw it out – for which I almost got thrown out myself by the cafe owner when I complained it was rancid. Maybe I just could not pronounce the Spanish word for Rancid. Of course now I know. It’s Rancio. Of course it would be.
Try telling a passionate Cafe owner in the port city of Cartagena that his Paella was Rancio. See what happens.
Well Rancio it was not. It was my first bitter encounter with local Olive Oil. I have come a long way since. Learning to cook with Olive Oil is an art in itself. How do you preserve the consistency and nutty strong flavours contained in the best and freshest of cold presses by not heating it too much, and yet allowing the food to be cooked ? But ah .. the taste of freshly picked Cherry Tomatoes cooked gently and slowly over low heat of fresh olive oil is the greatest addition to scrambled eggs for breakfast.
Back to Grand Rapids, Michigan. And there was the most wonderful Olive Oils shops I had encountered in all my travels. Oils from Tunisia, all over the US, Spain, Chile, Italy and various parts of the world that I did not even know grew Olives. Spicy oil with spices from exotic parts of the world. And all kinds of Balsamic Vinegar, which to me was a new experience. For other than organic or not , was the extent of knowledge I had about Balsamic Vinegar.
And just as my 11 year old was getting restless enough to shove more snow under my collar, the great lady who owned the shop sensing that, brought out to her the wonders of Maple Syrup. And I thought Maple Syrup was just Maple Syrup. Well not in this shop it isn’t. There were all kinds of Maple Syrup from various places over the US. Never tasted Maple Syrup so sweet and rich. Perhaps its a speciality in Michigan. Is it ? So its Maple Syrup from Old World Olive Press – the most fascinating Olive Oil store I have visited.
Small towns like Grand Rapids certainly have some wonderful surprises in store. Like this one http://www.oldworldolivepress.com/store/
Visit it, you will not regret it.
And I was kicked enough to buy both me and my daughter a pair of the latest Jordan shoes. Which though far more expensive than I would usually pay for a pair of sneakers (sorry , sorry, I know they are not mere sneakers, they are Jordans !) , I know that stores had run out of stock all over the US on the first day. But here in Grand Rapids. Michigan I got them, much to my daughters delight.
Not shoes she said, Jordans.
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