{"id":617,"date":"2009-09-18T23:11:20","date_gmt":"2009-09-18T23:11:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekharkapur.com\/newblog\/?p=617"},"modified":"2009-09-18T23:11:20","modified_gmt":"2009-09-18T23:11:20","slug":"why-does-the-moment-not-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shekharkapur.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/why-does-the-moment-not-last\/","title":{"rendered":"Why does &#8216;the moment&#8217; not last ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In response to Kavita&#8217;s inspiring story of how she is meeting the challenges of battle against Cancer, Trupti asks a very valid question :<br \/>\n&#8220;You live as routine&#8230;<br \/>\nYou breath as routine..<br \/>\nOne day you come across such inspiring story and it stirs your soul and makes you feel inferior, you get excited and restless.<br \/>\nNext day you become normal&#8230;<br \/>\nShekhar, why does this feeling lasts only till we hear another story? Why can&#8217;t we immerse this feeling in our soul forever and really live life with the thought &#8220;every day could be your last&#8221;. After all that will help you to get over all your inhibitions&#8221;<br \/>\nVery valid question Trupti, that questions the fundamental way we learn ( and that is important because I do not think we were born that way) to live. Living in fear of what may be, unable to let go of an interpretation of the past ( and it is only a very prejudiced interpretation).  Is it because our mind is afraid to let go of that fear, because if it does, the ego will lose control of &#8216;us&#8217;, for a fearless mind is a mind that is able to live completely in the moment, in the present.  Probably with much more humility than the ego will allow. As in Kavita&#8217;s case, as she says, the one way she got over the fear of death from Cancer was to concentrate on the joy of creativity of the moment.  So Trupti&#8217;s question is very valid. Why do we need a near death experience to learn that the moment is the truth ?<br \/>\nNot always though. The first time you fall in love (well, every time), you feel a release from the constriction of time, of the future, so lost are you in something completely extraordinary that is happening to you.  Or a musician at the moment of composition, or a singer lost in his\/her song, a dancer lost in the dance so much that that the dance and the dancer become one<br \/>\nThe word &#8216;lost&#8217; keeps coming up. To lose yourself. To lose your identity. Your individuality. Like a person of great faith lost in worship.  All moments when you experience moments of fearlessness &#8211; and are pulled into the eternity of the &#8216;now&#8217;.<br \/>\nBut why can it not last ?  Anyone care to take up Trupti&#8217;s question ?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In response to Kavita&#8217;s inspiring story of how she is meeting the challenges of battle against Cancer, Trupti asks a very valid question : &#8220;You live as routine&#8230; You breath as routine.. One day you come across such inspiring story and it stirs your soul and makes you feel inferior, you get excited and restless. 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