{"id":562,"date":"2009-04-29T07:35:08","date_gmt":"2009-04-29T07:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shekharkapur.com\/newblog\/?p=562"},"modified":"2009-04-29T07:35:08","modified_gmt":"2009-04-29T07:35:08","slug":"true-lasting-love-is-it-devotion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shekharkapur.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/true-lasting-love-is-it-devotion\/","title":{"rendered":"True lasting love : is it devotion ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This came in from Cinda and I found it very beautiful :<br \/>\nIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have his stitches removed from his thumb.  He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00.   I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.  On examining it I saw it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.<br \/>\nWhile taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor&#8217;s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.   I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while as she suffers with Alzheimer&#8217;s disease.<br \/>\nAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.  He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.  I was surprised and asked him, &#8220;And do you still go every morning, even though she doesn&#8217;t know who you are?&#8221;<br \/>\nHe smiled as he patted my hand and said,  &#8220;She doesn&#8217;t know me anymore but I still know who she is.&#8221; I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm and thought,<br \/>\n&#8220;That is the kind of love I want in my life. True love is neither physical nor romantic.&#8221;<br \/>\nTrue love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nPeace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank. The happiest people don&#8217;t necessarily have the best of everything ? they are just able to make the best of everything they have.<br \/>\nThe road to success is not straight.<br \/>\nThere is a curve called Failure,<br \/>\na loop called Confusion,<br \/>\nspeed bumps called Friends,<br \/>\nred lights called Enemies,<br \/>\ncaution lights called Family.<br \/>\nYou will have flats called Jobs.<br \/>\nBut, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance,<br \/>\ninsurance called Faith,<br \/>\na driver called Almighty God,<br \/>\nyou will make it to a place called Success.<br \/>\n~unknown<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This came in from Cinda and I found it very beautiful : It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have his stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00. 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